Saturday 12 October 2013

8 Ways to be a Lady

There are some women who are better in terms of manners than others. This doesn’t necessarily mean that women without them are not capable of having better manners and acting like more of a “lady.” Here is something that our grandmothers and our great grandmothers hoped for all of their daughters and granddaughters. If you’re wondering how to be a lady, the following tips are going to help you become one that your mother would be proud of. 1. Stick to One Man Being a sexual woman is quite alright. There are no double standards although society makes us feel as if there is. There isn’t anything wrong with sexually experimenting but to a certain extent it isn’t safe to fool around with too many people, and it isn’t really fun either. If you can, stick to the men that you build a mental connection with. 2. Know when to stop My sister, everybody knows that you are intelligent but please, know when to stop talking when you are in the midst of people. 3. Avoid Smoking It’s funny how certain innuendos change over time. Smoking use to be very classy and glamorous at one point in time. Today smoking looks trashy, not to mention it’s extremely unhealthy for you. It causes more wrinkles and it increases your chances of cancer by a lot! 4. Limit Drinking Within the privacy of your own home, what you do is your own business. When you are in public and you are not with your significant other or family its best if you limit your drinking. It’s also safe to do this so that you don’t get taken advantage of by any creepy guy at the bar. 5. Stay Organized Let’s face it; it’s never attractive when a woman is a slob in the way that she lives or the way that she dresses. Stay neat and organized. The most important thing that you can do is keep everything clean including your house and your hygiene. 6. Limit Cursing Although cursing seems very fitting at times, it isn’t too classy to curse often. Try to avoid cussing in front of the elderly or people who may find it offensive since a lot of people do. If you are really angry in public, stick to words that are a bit more mild than the f-bomb. 7. Take Advantage of Being a Woman There are far too many women who don’t actually take advantage of their feminine traits and sexual power. Ladies, instead of wearing pajamas or a t shirt and pants in public you should try to dress up more. Do this for yourself and not anyone else. You know that when you dress yourself up you feel more confident and attract more people into your life. 8. Remain Polite There are too many women in today’s society who have forgotten about the importance of manners and a polite attitude. We all have tempers, there’s no doubt about that – but you should never be rude toward any other man or women. Be polite even if the person doesn’t deserve it. If it’s your significant other who is being rude to you, don’t be polite. Dump them!